Do you ask yourself why you have to have 4 kids??????????
If the current situation is already enough to stress you out,
having to look after, nurture, support 4 kids will definitely
increase your stress. Have you ever thought about it?
no .... I think it'll be happiness ..... and completeness ....
i have this vision of bringing my kids to fish at a jetty
somewhere by the sea, 5 of us sitting in a row, ranged from the
biggest to the smallest, swinging out legs .....
and the kids waking me and dearling up in the morning by jumping
onto the bed ... 
wah lau ..... don't spoil it for me mah ...... won't it be more
fun for you guys to be able to gloat at me a decade down the line
when I'm the harried, stressed out dad you guys predict I'll become
? ... 
